Stages

Love...

Today I suddenly feel like sharing my thoughts on this topic - Love..

"To love" means...
Some may get hurt when the one being loved doesn't appreciate.
Some may get hurt when the one being loved did something hurting in return.
Some may get hurt when the one being loved had gone without explanation.
Some may get hurt when the one being loved loves someone else yet refuses to let go.

Some may be happy when the one being loved did something loving to show their appreciation in return.
Some may be happy when the one being loved is happy and healthy.
Some may be happy when the one being loved remembers everything that is done for them.
Some may be happy when both are bonded greatly despite all kinds of obstacles faced.
Some may be happy even when there's just a kiss on the forehead after a day's work.
Some may be happy when sacrifices are done to make the one being loved to be fortunate.

"Being Loved" means...
Some may feel upset when the one who loved is using a wrong way of expressing.
Some may feel upset when the one who loved isn't the one whom they wish to be with.
Some may feel upset when it's time for them to show their love in return, the one who loved no longer is around.
Some may feel upset when own's trust is being questioned.

"Love scenarios" means...
Some may love with a thought of forgive and forget.
Some may love with a thought of revenge.
Some may love with a thought of sympathy.
Some may love with a thought of gratitude.
Some may love with a thought of self belief.
Some may love with a thought of destiny and fate.
Some may love generously.
Some may love agressively.
Some may love possessively.
Some may love in a world of fear.
Some may love in a world of hope.
Some may have to live being an optimist
Some may choose to live in ownself's protected and limited boundary just to shower love and receive love.

The Love Cycle means...
Acquaintance -- Courtship -- Couplehood -- Marriage -- Kinship

Why the cycle is like that?
Acquaintance -- Both needs to know each other in order to explore different traits of interests.
Courtship -- It's carried out when one party showed great interest in another
Couplehood -- When both decided to be steady together, they shared thoughts and opinions.
Marriage -- A way of representing the stability of bond and love levels between 2 parties, exchanging promises of loving and taking care of each other till the end of the road.
Kinship -- A stage whereby the passion and sweet love had upgraded to the love of kinship. One is willing to show own's bad and good points, sharing vows and woes, no matter how big the problem is, there still someone there willing to lend a helping hand. Love doesn't has to be always mention verbally, but it still can be felt clearly even there's a difference in distance and time.

There are many other kinds of love and ways of loving.. To know what and how, you have to live till the fullest, be challenging and brave.

There is only one happiness in life,
to love and be loved.

- George Sand -

P/S : I had nothing wrong with my love life. So don't worry about anything after reading my post. Just lazy to upload photos and update on my kids' status. Just wanting to type how I feel and things I learnt all these years...