Kieron turned 4years old officially on 30th May 2008.

Had a mini celebration for Kieron yesterday which was his actual birthday. Parents couldn't make it last weekend as Mum had fallen ill, so had a 2nd mini party with them on the actual day instead..

The birthday cake was very colourful and of course yummy, bought by da jiu jiu.
He been wanting to eat the cake since we reached mum's place at 3pm. But, the celebration only started at 9pm, hehe.. To wait for parents to get off from work. A pity that my youngest brother couldn't make it cos he's in camp. But, he still managed to attend last week's party.

Kieron was so excited this time. hehe..

Here's some snapshots of the mini party..

Photos update

Kayden and Kieron had fun during the office trip today. Kayden is busy with his chattering and laughing. & Kieron is busy collecting his sweets from those ah yis. hehe..

Kayden smiling and laughing to the camera. He is as sensitive as Kieron, always alot of expressions in front of the lenses.



See this cutie singlet? hehe.. It's worn by me 24years ago. hahaha.. Never expect it to be in such good condition after so many years huh.. keke.. My grandma (maternal) kept all the clothes in her storeroom for years. Till Kieron was born, then she started to dig all out again. hehe..



He's always so excited whenever he's awake.. He loves to sit in this way. But he will still try to sit up by his own without support. haha.. Way to go, my dear..

"Compliment" to my "Dear" ex colleague

After my checkup, I went to have lunch with some of my ex colleagues. Really missed them alot..

But this trip back was a angry and happy one..

When I first reached there, Kayden woke up wanna some milk. Just nice a colleague from the other dept who was very good to me booked a small meeting room, and she had finished using it. So she asked me to go and use it as breastfeeding room since it won't take long.. Just when I fed Kayden halfway in the room, she and another colleague came in to find me. They told me the receptionist gave them some "reasonings". Saying internal staffs already don't have enough room to use, how can she let me an outsider to use. This really got me real angry. Why she don't want to come and tell me directly since I'm the outsider. If this really is an issue, she has all rights to come and say me. But she didn't. I remembered my sweet Director offered me to use those meeting room to change diaper and even asked me to let Kieron take a nap there before. Why I can't use it for 10mins for now? Obviously she's saying different things to different people...

Being fed up of her unreasonable sayings, when I was out of the room, I said loudly why she don't want to come and talk to me herself? I know I will make her angry or even hate me even more.. But she should know that I'm always such character after knowing me for 7+years, any disagreement or unhappiness come to me face to face, don't act like a tortoise, trying to hide behind and say.

She's a well known gossiper and attitude person in our company. Merely a receptionist, she will act like she owns the company. She has this bad habit of saying sarcastic things and backstabbing people.. She can be friendly and sociable to you at this moment, but next moment, she be gossiping about you and spreading rumours of yours at your back.. Such woman, scary ya..!? Usually office politics come from such character. Being so old, opps, shouldn't say old. Being so "experienced" living in this world, she should know what kind of peron or characteristics will be lovable. Maybe she met some unfairness in her life to make her abit emotional or mentally unbalanced, so she just like to do things to make herself detestable. Felt pity for her, cos being such a person, don't think she will be able to get true friend, cos everyone around her has the risk of being "stabbed".. Haiz.. Oh yes! Emailing is a good way of gossiping too.. Through email, it's highly secretive, cos whoever being stabbed won't be able to know who's the actual big mouth. But too bad, her actions are clearly recognised by almost everyone. Poor woman...

I heard that last week, another ex colleague of mine whom had left the company as well went back to pay a visit. This selfish receptionist didn't even bother to open the door for her. (Our company's door is a tap card system, so non staff member, visitors or even clients have to wait for the receptionist to press the open door switch which is just under her desk for them.)

As a receptionist, can be said is a representative of the company image. When client steps into the company, the first person he/she will see is the receptionist. But tell me, who will like such black face and bad attitude person? Don't tell me she knows how to differentiate who is client who is poor guy, then she will react differently? Everyone is a potential client and where does her salary come from? From these clients who are willing to tolerate such poor service of hers.. Haiz..

After I left the office today, she went to talk to the colleague who lent me the room. She said she doesn't mean anything. Too bad or too late, she pissed off my colleague. She scolded her back, and said since she's the one who booked the room, she will answer for it if anyone question about it.

Or could it be she's experiencing some problem to have such bad attitude towards people? Can she really get happiness by doing things like gossiping, spreading untrue rumours, backstabbing? Strange.. There are really all sort of strange person in this world. Because of her presence, we are able to know who is angel who is devil. haha.. Thanks to her!!


P/S: I know I confirmed will offend people with this post.. But too bad, I'm not afraid of anything cos I'm stating facts. I strongly believe in justice and doing things with upright conscience openly... Sorry if i offend anyone, just my point of view.. Note : Names are NOT mentioned.

I went for my 1st CHECKUP after giving birth to Kayden!!

YEah!! I finally went for my checkup!! hehe...

A happy checkup today.. Had chats with my gynae and her nurses. It had been 4months+ since I last saw them. They were concerned on what happened to me for my pregnancy complication.

Gynae said Kayden's growing very well, and he's catching up with normal baby, asked me to continue breastfeeding for him. However, I still got "scolding" from her. hehe.. Her sight on me, she shouted, "What happen to you? Why are you getting thinner?" The nurses were laughing too, I'm thinner and lighter before I got pregnant. hehe.. I'm only 42.8kg now.. hahaha. Before I'm pregnant which was about 1year ago, I was 44kgs. hahahahah.. I didn't know why too..

She said I still can have 3rd birth, but relapse possibility of the pregnancy complication is 20%. But, I'm afraid.. I don't wanna take any risk of losing any one.. 2 will be enough for me... One thing she couldn't understand was that I don't have any history of high blood but I still get this complication is really a rare case.. But another thing she said that I was lucky that I got it at later stage of my pregnancy so baby considered rather stable for delivery just being too small in size.. Really a blessing in disguise.. keke..

Everything is fine for me now, blood pressure everything. Now, I just have to wait for my Pap Smear report and to monitor my blood pressure. Once I have the history of high blood, it still can come back to me anytime..

Bad Days -- Either too hot or Rainy

Last week, highest temperature was 34degrees Celsius. This week, haiz... Didn't really improve alot, been raining, but still so humid...

People tends to get sick under such bad weather, virus be everywhere.. So we started off the mid year school holiday by staying at home.. Abit bored indeed.. But seeing the 2 boys, time passes as fast as shopping outdoor.. They are always doing things that are so sweet and funny..




i was behind the sofa taking the video, he wanted me to go near him, bt i didn't. tats y he been kicking hard. hehe..

Kayden trying to skip growing stage

You see this "gan jiong" little boy..

He hasn't learn how to flip, hasn't learn how to lie flat on tummy with head upright straight, but he trying to learn how to sit..

Kiasu little Kayden, he just turned 4months old last Saturday.

Kayden 1st time on Cereal

Thinking back to 3years+ ago, Kieron hated cereal so much he went crying and vomitting. Today, seeing his younger bro who's going to have his 1st attempt on semi-solid food at age of 4mths old, he wanna have a bowl of cereal too..


Surprisingly, Kayden seemed to like it alot. He will try to swallow the cereal down slowly, and he keeps smiling after every mouth of cereal, as if someone just kissed him on his lips. keke..

Kieron kept encouraged his brother beside too, he even try to help wipe Kayden's mouth.

For his very first time on semi-solid food, he didn't really finish his cereal, about 10 mouth, his progress is considered not bad. He's rather not too picky yet.. Will let him have his 2nd try in the evening. hehe..


However, when it comes to bottle drinking. He threw temper immediately.. Too bad, I will still continue let him drink water from bottle no matter how bad temper he's gonna throw. haha.

Kieron's 4yrs old Birthday Party - Part 2

Balloon fight


Birthday singing. See how shy the birthday boy is. hehe..


Gift opening.. He's shy yet curious to know what r his presents about. But he still remembered to throw the wrappers into the bin. keke..

Kieron's 4yrs old Birthday Party - Part 1

Kieron had his 4th year old Birthday Party held on 25th May 08.

He was so excited since waking up in the morning..He been asking me when is the party starting, where is his birthday cake, where r the uncles and aunts.. hehe..

Many people came over to our house, so much more than last year's party. Kieron and Kayden's great grandmother (Jason's maternal grandma) came too.. This's our first time celebrating his birthday in our own house, so I thought we'll have something different..


I did some decorations for his party. I put up some ribbons and ordered helium balloons at a really reasonable price. The kids and adults had fun with them. haha.. Some became punching "bag". Kieron was so excited upon seeing the man delivering balloons here.. His very first floating balloon..

He was running about, pulling the balloons all over the house. Chasing after aunts, trying to scare them with the balloons. hehe..



Then came the cake cutting session, he started to get "stressed". He's so shy when all the adults were staring at him standing alone next to his CareBear chocolate sponge cake. hee.. So we went over to accompany him. However, his expression was still so stiff.. But, much better than last year, he cried when everyone sang Happy Birthday song for him. This year, he tried to smile but failed. hahaha.. He's tooo timid..


We had our very very very first family photo too.. hehe.. See the 2 kids, eyes on the cake. keke..


After makan, this birthday boy couldn't wait to open up all his bday presents and started playing.. hehe..

After all the guests had left, he was soo tired but still vain. He wanna me to take photos of him posing with his floating balloons before he goes to sleep..


He's so tired till while lying on bed, he told me, " I wan nei nei (his milk)" Before I answered him "no" cos he just had a piece of cake 5mins ago, he felt deep asleep.. haha..

Thanks pals.. Thanks for coming over to join in the fun! It's been a fun n laughing night for all of us..

The videos will be coming up in next post..

Preparation for Kieron's 4th yr old Bday Party

hehe.. It's a day away from Kieron's party.. This year, there's some differences from the past parties.. Venue, decorations... Something to make it more memorable and fun, of cos it be reasonable spending too..

I feel excited as much as Kieron, not thinking of the gifts. But excited in having chats and gossips with people that I hardly have chance to meet up with for quite some time.

Later, we will be off to buy stuffs to make the party even special... Hope it be a really really wonderful birthday party for Kieron tomorrow... keke...

Wait for my photos posting ya!!

Early birds watching Crayon Shin

Both of them woke up really early today, at 7am! First thing in the morning, after greeting each other with smiles and hugs. They watched their fav show together -- Crayon Shin. It's Kayden's first time watching the cartoon. It seemed he liked it as much as Kieron. Both of them were sitting quietly, smiling in front of the TV.


Kieron not forgetting to look after his younger bro while watching TV.

It's Reading Time!! --- Part 2

Seeing both of them being happy with each others' companion really made me feel consoled.. What a pair of loving, playful and cute siblings.. hehe..

Our Eyes

Kieron and Kayden had whose set of eyes...? Mummy's or Daddy's eyes...? hehe..

Quite fun to cut up everyone's eyes and put side by side together to compare.. I shall do the same thing for nose and mouth soon too.. hehe..

Baby Walker Fun

It's Kayden first time in this 2-in-1 walker passed down by Kieron.


See how much they enjoyed..

Kayden's VERY FIRST Haircut

Kayden is 4mth old according to the Chinese's Lunar calendar... So I brought him for his first hair shave today..

Surprisingly, he reacted well to the shaver moving about on his head. He kept smiling and laughing for feeling ticklish as the hairstylist (Jenny) shaved along his head. He's not like those kids who cried during haircut session. For Kayden, he looked excited instead.. hehe.. He had his eyebrows shaved off as well..


After reaching home, Kieron and I got hooked touching Kayden's spiky head. hehe..

Before going off to the salon, c how grouchy he looked..

Not fully shaved, let some hair remain on his frontella. So looks abit like 红孩儿. keke..

My childhood time Idol -- 卓依婷

While making Kayden to sleep in the afternoon in his sarong, memories of me singing and dancing when I was during Primary school time flashed back in my mind..

So went Youtube to try my luck in finding this sweet ger who was just a few years older than me singing 黄梅调.& I did it! And I actually managed to find those clips that I used to have.. So excited.. Because the old video tapes I used to have had turned mouldy, so it's really happy for me to find back these lovely songs after 15years and more..

Here's some nice 黄梅调 sang by this lovely girl,卓依婷.




There are many others, but too many for me to post here.. hehe.. I wonder if there's anyone the same age as me like 卓依婷 or 黄梅调 too.. Cos I remembered during my time, POP songs were the most popular. 黄梅调 were mostly for those people much more older than my generation. I liked this type of songs that much was actually under my Mum and grandma's influences. hehe.. I would dressed up and dance or sing, trying to imitate those 黄梅调 singers.. Kinda funny yet fun.. hehe...

Those were the days.. When I tried to sing along with the clips I found in Youtube, Kieron was so curious and insisted on sitting on my laps, watching the clips and asked what am I singing and what's the song about. hehe..

Here's one more 黄梅调 that's under my favourite list. hehe..

Kieron at 4months old (year 2005)

Couldn't get to sleep despite 1 day of chores and babysitting, so dug out some of the old photos and videos stored in those backup discs.. Went through a few of Kieron's small time videos.. Just so sweet, he's just so cute. Much more active and witty than Kayden.

I uploaded some photos and videos that I'd taken for Kieron when he's about 4months old. There are some alike places between the 2 bros. Just so adorable and have the X factor to attract people's attention...


His very first hair shaved at age of 4months

Kieron loves laughing and smiling as much as Kayden, both are cheerful as me, or can say easily smile and laugh no matter how small the joke will be. hehe..

Kayden getting chubbier

Here's a couple of photos taken this morning..



Kayden is turning 4 months old in just 4 days time. See the differences.. hehe.. He's really a happy go lucky, easily happy fellow.. He smiles and talks to whoever play and greet him even it's a stranger.. (hmmz, not very safe.. haha)

Taken on 22Feb 2008 (Turning 1mth old)

Taken on 20May 2008 (4months old to be)

Same suit, above is too loose, below is abit too tight.. hehe.. Yummy fleshy thighs and cheeks..

The MOST BEAUTIFUL photos of Me

Though these photos were "expensive", but I had alot of fun during the photo shooting.. I'm asked to pose with Jason that we had never try before. So interesting.. We looked just so charming.. hehe.. I loved them so much~!!

DO we look like ah beng and ah lian? hehe..

6th June 2003 - Sweet Memories

Jason and I were married on 6th June 2003. & it was the dangerous period of SARS. At the registry of marriage, only 20 people including the couple were only allowed for every solemnisation ceremony. I remembered my family and my close friends were there for me. Even they couldn't enter the room to witness me taking the vows and wearing of the wedding band, but they waited patiently. I'm touched by their concern and thankful for their blessings for us.



On the very night, we had a celebration at Downtown East chalet. We invited everyone, our friends, family and relatives as well as our colleagues. It's soooooooo heartwarming to have everyone wishing us all the best and to share the happy moment. It's even more merry and fun than having dinner in hotel or restaurant. We were able to take our times chatting with every individuals and don't have to have any restrictions. Had bbq and buffet. Laughters filled the air whole night long.

After the party, my group of close sisters were so sweet.. They purposely bought wine and glasses for us to have nuptial wine. But it's our very first time exchanging nuptial wine, so funny scenes occured.. hehe...

Part One


Part Two

I remembered everyone went laughing hilariously and rolling on the floor... Angie, our lao da even fell off from the bed, she laughed the loudest too. hehe.. Our videographer, Chee Min tried so hard to focus from her shakey hands, cos she's laughing too.. you can see how "38" (San Ba) I am 5years ago too.. I was tearing and having bad stomach cramps from laughing.. Poor Jason had to put up with our teasing and joking too.. hahaha.. Really a sweet memory and it's really memorable. What a funny day!

Have a good laugh..

Brothers enjoyed playing together - Part Two

I have a "Birdie" at home

Kayden now has a habit of waking up at 5.30am and starts talking.. Really an EARLY bird. Luckily, he's "improving", after half an hour of babbling, he will fall back to sleep, all the way till 8.30am. haha.. This is how he looks like, every morning looking so fresh, happy and energetic..


And this is how he looks like, when he starts feeling hungry.. Can't find the "milk source", then his "drumstick" (fist) will be the temporary replacement. haha.. But, he will get little smack from me on his fist. "No no, VERY DIRTY" then he will go laughing.

It's Reading Time!!

This is one of the moment they enjoyed each other's companion.

See how engrossed Kayden is when his brother is flipping the book.

Kayden being FUSSY today

Kayden starts to behave like how Kieron does in the past..

He likes to suck his fist to sleep even if he's not hungry. Really a bad habit. Everytime I pull away, he will start to throw temper. Too bad... So I will force a pacifier into his mouth, at least better than fist, so much germs. However, he just don't like pacifier, he will push it away using his tongue and continue his temper. Then really too bad, he will either cry to sleep or simply forget about the sucking and sleep quietly..


See his grouchy look before he falls sleep.

While Kieron is watching his Tom N Jerry cartoon in the afternoon, Kayden heard the TV sound and forgo his nap. He wants to sit up and watch as well.. & he really behaves like he can understand the cartoon.. Kieron and I feel so amazed and stare at Kayden. hehe.. Kayden will even laugh along when Tom fell down. Mischievious Kieron purposely off the TV when he sees Kayden so engrossed.. Kayden is just so cute. He frowned and turn his head around, glaring at Kieron. haha.. He's just 3.5mths old.. Outsiders commented his focus on things isn't like what a normal baby could do. hehe..



Here's a clip Kayden dancing and singing when he hears music. hehe.. He is so happy..

Baby Pram Fun

Today, I let Kayden try sleeping in the pram that my ex colleagues bought for Kieron 4yrs ago. hehe.. He's excited about it! He kept laughing and kicking while lying in it.. I felt so relieved.. Because Kieron simply hated it so much, when I put him
inside the pram when he's around Kayden's age, he cried so much.. So the pram was still so new and in good condition after so many years... But, today Kieron wanted to join in the fun. He acted like a overgrown baby. haha..


Kayden grew! He started using Mamy Poko Diaper Size S today! hehe.. Kieron's teacher called Kayden as a Buddha today. hehe.. Because of the way he sits in the sarong and his round round chubby face..

Today I felt so sleepy... hehe.. Because I was naughty, after Kieron went to sleep last night, I played his new PSP game - Star Wars Regenerade Squadron (Hope I spelt correct, hehe). I loved such strategy war game.. & i only went to sleep at 3.30am. hehe.. But Kayden woke up at 6.30am, that's why I'm quite "zombie" today. haha..