Another sweet sweet moment...

hehehe.. Earlier the day I was still grumbling on the phone with Shelyn and hubby himself, saying that so many years of girlfriend and wife, he only gave me 2 years of birthday gift...

Then this morning, I found this box of white chocolate and perfume bottle in the kitchen. I thought it may be Shelyn left them behind accidentally... But it's not her..

I wondered about the things for couple of hours. Thinking it's not hubby, cos I still grumbled to him last night and this morning.. I even left a note before I went to bed last night saying "It's my birthday. No cake, no gifts, no hug, no kiss, no song, no candle. So sad"

15mins after my wonder...
Hubby on the phone said " I bought those things for you"
Me : Are you sure its for me? Or someone bought it for you then you pass to me?"
Hubby : I told you I bought for you.
Me : But I don't believe lei, you didn't give me presents for so many years, then the stuffs not wrap too
Hubby : I told you I buy means I buy, no need to wrap. You know I'm not romantic.

hehe... & my smile went so wide that I had aching jaws.. That harshness of his gave me sweetness in heart. hahaha.. Though its small present, but he did make some effort.. hehe.. He been not around on my birthdays for the past 8years, no gifts too..

31st December 2008

A fooling yet sweetest morning of the year...

Shelyn called me at 9.30am, wishing me Happy Birthday and saying that she needs to borrow some toddler toys from me.. Of course it's fine for me. We're on the phone for half an hour, when she said she'd reached her colleague's house. She would walk over to my house after that..

About 10-15mins later, There's a knock at my door.. But I couldn't see anyone around..

There she is, standing at the side of the door, holding a Chocolate cake with candles on it.. Awwww... So sweet, so touching.. & I'm the "colleague". haha..

All kinds of emotions came into my mind... ALmost cried.. But I didn't, cannot throw face.. hehe..

Happiness, gratefulness, excitement, sweetness, sadness came all at once.. I really didn't expect any of my friend to remember my birthday on the actual day.
(It's countdown day, everyone off to play) hehe.. & I have lovely Shelyn and her cake for my 26th birthday..

Hubby went to work, when I told him what happened later in phone, he said no money so no need to celebrate.. Not even a $1 sweet.. That's my sadness...

Shelyn, thank you so much...! You know me too well, you know that I'm gonna have a lonely and quiet birthday this year. hehe...

30th December - tiring day

Not only I have to do spring cleaning, but also entertaining my 2 boys..


playing chasing with them


Soapy bath in a special tub

Spring cleaning time again

Today spring cleaned my storeroom halfway.. & I already packed 5 huge cartons of toys and 1 huge carton of kids clothings. & I still have half of the storeroom not pack. I'm tired.. haha...

I'm throwing, the boys are picking...

Went IMM

Yesterday went IMM again with my youngest bro n kids. I love shopping at Daiso. They have sooooo many things to see and buy.. Too bad... $$.. hehe..

Shopped for 4hours, back breaking, soles cracking. haha...

Kayden : First time on road
Kieron : Better grab something tight

Kayden : Oh no, Traffic Police, Sorry sir....
Kieron : See I told u, you are too young to drive

Kayden : Got fines and summon. What a bad day!
Kieron : Who ask you to ignore my warnings. haha..

2008 Christmas Party

Yes.. This year, we had a belated Christmas party. As usual, at my house..

We had a short-timed, small yet heartwarming gathering... Cheemin and ChoonWei, Huimin and Kah Hoe, Michelle, Lao Da and Me as well as the 2 little boys..

We ordered food from Golden Pillow. Nice and reasonable pricing food.. Good choice.. But, have to order really early before party starts, it took them 2hrs to reach us.

Cheemin wasn't feeling well, she had been feeling nauseous on her way to my house. So she stayed for about an hour before going home to rest. A good news, Huimin, our blur sleepy queen is actually pregnant and be due next Feb. And she has a baby girl. hehe.. We will have more kids running about for next Xmas.. hehe..

Lao Da bought a lot of gifts too, for the 2 boys and all of us. I've got a pretty white Wristlet pouch. Kieron had 2 sets of clothings and 1 full set of stationaries. Kayden had a lovely cute shirt too.. Just nice for his Chinese New year suit. hehe..

We had a quick gift exchange. So that Cheemin can go home to rest and Huimin has to attend another Xmas party. Michelle stayed till around 8pm before she went off. Laoda, is the cutest of all. She went back last. She stayed at my house to laze around, "snuggling" on my sofa. haha.. "Sweetest" of all till she's the only one who got the mosquito bites. haha..

Why I mentioned heartwarming..? Cos its really nice to have close friends who hardly meet up but put in effort to attend the gathering. Friendship.. Isn't it beautiful?

I'm now waiting eagerly for our next gathering, which is Chinese New Year gathering at Laoda's house. I've missed past years gathering at her house, for 4years. haha.. One cos my grandma passed away, one cos i went on trip, 2 cos I was having babies. hahaha.. Next Year, I can make it!! Yeah~~!! Food, fun, laughters.. hehehehehe..


Before the Ah yis and uncles come, the boys are meddling around.

Lao Da and Michelle preparing the food.

Huimin, Me and Cheemin

Kayden enjoying the food..

Favourite Public Holiday of EVERY year

MERRY MERRY CHRISTMAS....!!

HOPE EVERYONE OF YOU BE FILLED WITH HAPPINESS, LAUGHTERS AND LOVE.. BE HEALTHY AND IN GOOD SHAPE IN 2009!!!!

STAY CHEERFUL, BE HOPEFUL, BE GRATEFUL...

Kieron had a trip

A trip? To where..

No no.. Kieron had a BAD trip.. He fell at the void deck and bumped his forehead onto the edge of a lower wall.

His blood started to flow down his face, and gushing out uncontrollably. He was crying, yelling, panicking.. He's really in great pain.

I quickly let Kayden down and took off Kieron's shirt to press hard on his deep wound. I was alone.. Bringing him home was quite tough. Kieron don't have enough strength to press down his wound. Yet I stil have to carry Kayden. I was striding home. (BEST part was there was actually a man on the bench, he saw what happened, he still looked over at us, BUT HE NEVER walked over to help, SIngaporeans!!!!)

Cleansed his wound and bandaged him. The wound stopped bleeding but really deep, about 1cm deep in, 2cm wide. I think he need some stitches..

Supposedly, I'm having a small gathering with my 2 other friends. Due to this accident, they accompanied us to the doctors too. We went to a nearby 24hrs clinic, the doctor said we had to go to the hospital, Kieron needs to sleep in order to have the stitches up.

We made our way to KKH, during the journey, Kieron was feeling really lousy. As we got nearer, he started to feel insecure, crying and throwing temper. After some assurance and joke cracked by my dad, Kieron smiled and calmed down.

Kieron became a brave boy once he stepped into the A&E department. The doctor gave him a check, with the nurses applying freezing cold anesthesia to his wound. Half an hour later, the nurses and doctor brought him into a small surgery theatre. I came along, to build up his confidence. He performed really well than I had expected. He did not make single complaint, did not shed any tears nor fidget when the nurses tied him up and cover his eyes (to prevent him from moving and getting cold - side effect when the anesthesia wear off). A quick surgery lasted about 15mins.

Think I will spare the details of how the doctor performed the cleaning and stitching the wound. hehe.. (My friend almost faint when I described to her once we're out of the room). The doctor was a funny Caucasian, she said some mothers passed out while watching how the doctor stitch it. hehe. She said we are calm mother and son. I was really proud of Kieron.

Though he got the wound due to his ignorance to my advices and being mischievious, he still got a grade A for being a brave boy. In total, he had 6 stitches.

A scar in future to remind him of NOT TO RUN FAST when outdoor. haha.. A lesson to make him realise NEVER to ignore mother's warnings. hehe..

I joked to my 2 friends that "I think I'm not human, cos I was still joking and being easy, some mothers may have already be jumping high and low, yelling at people". hehe... Do you think I'm a human? hehe..


P/S : Wanna know what lame joke my dad crack? --- Cry louder, let the nurses think it's serious and he can have the priority to see the doctor. & Kieron started laughing after this. hehe..

Barney "in" the house

Kids...

Barney...

Songs....

Dance...


They are always related... Including Kayden..

He's enjoying the musical show..



Oh ya.. didn't know if I mention this before. Kayden loves to hear me sing Smurf's goodnight song. Whenever he's sleepy or grouchy, once he hears this song, he will soothe down and smile..

Kayden caught in act

Kayden saying byebye briefly just to "entertain" me.

Tried to climb the sofa when I walked away.

Toy washing day

Sunny and windy day...

Kieron has been a helpful boy today, he helped in gathering toys, soaking toys, rinsing toys and drying toys (actually he's into playing water)with me. hehe..

Kayden is not idling around while we are "working" too. hehe.. He has an "Important" task. He's inspecting all the toys we washed.. This little potato is so cheeky that, he crawled over happily, going through all the toys. "Inspecting" them using his mouth.

When I said he's dirtying the toy again, he laughed.

Preparing for the wash

Soaking the toys in batches
Kieron sunning the toys,Kayden tried to mess up
Kayden "inspecting"
Kayden "testing" if its cleaned
Kayden laughing, it IS clean
Kieron teased Kayden by sticking his cookery stuffs onto Kayden's diaper. Cute ya!

The boys playing

Photos taken by Kieron - Part 2

Funny shot (Don't follow me)
Unglam shot (Squeezed out Double chin)
Mischief act(Tried to act capture after his daddy cleared the tanks from the stand)

Photos TAKEN BY Kieron

Yes yes yes.. These photos are taken yesterday by my elder son, Kieron. hehe.. Hmmz.. Think he's able to capture nicer photos compared to me.. More to come.. There are some more taken today, but hasn't got the time to upload yet.. He managed to capture some of Kayden's mischievious acts.

Videos (Part 2) - Kayden

Kayden been doing strange things lately. He liked to put things in his mouth, let go of his hands, and waiting to see our expressions on his doings, then he will laugh.. Strange..


Opps.. Walking unbalanced, tripped over my foot. hehe..


Very very short clip,cos he walked quite a bit before I managed to grab my camera. hehe.. Still Clumsy. Maybe more steady by next week..

Maomao's kitties

Remember the mother cat I saved few months ago?

She had given birth during the period I was away from home. Her babies are now 1.5mths old.. Guess how many babies she had for this time round?

hehe... This is the first biggest batch I ever heard of. EIGHT! She had 8 babies!! But none has the same body pattern as her. They are either full white, grey, or black with white. VEry very very adorable babies..

Maomao went to my neighbour's house to give birth, and my neighbour became the midwife. She helped her to pull out the babies. I feel kinda bad and sad, cos I missed the wonderful sight of my cat giving birth. All 8 of them had very very nice bodies and long tails, unlike those stray cats that you normally see on streets that have broken tails.

We brought the kittens back to my house to play. OH MY GOD!! They are so active, running about, hiding, climbing, sniffing and exploring my kitchen. Maomao as a responsible mother, she stood there sternly, walking around as if warning her babies "BE careful, watch what you are doing!"

Kieron and Kayden were so excited upon seeing 1 basketful of kitties running about. hehe.. When I brought them back to my neighbour's house, Poor Kieron cried.. I consoled him, we have wait till Kayden is much older then we can officially keep a cat at home.

December Videos (part 1)

This is how rough the boys play. BOYS!


Though they have 4years age gap, but that won't stop them from playing together. Sweet brothers...


However, when it comes to food.. Both's common interest. They become foes. haha..

Kayden on swing

Taken last week while his dad playing with him..


Kayden talks alot now.. He's able to express himself just that his words aren't clear yet. There's once my bro was fixing up a playground for the hamsters. Kayden tried to take those wooden sticks. Brother said no to him, and turned around with his stuffs. Kayden got angry and pointed at my brother "Aei, Ah, Uh." After awhile, he tried to snatch the sticks again, My brother of course said no and turned to the other side. hehehe.. Kayden continued to say "Ah, Aei, Uh" even louder, as if saying "give it to me, i wanna play too". hehe..

Bitey Kayden - new age Bottle opener

This bottle belongs to Kieron. But it becomes Kayden's new "toy". Don't know how did he think of such a way to open up the bottle cap.



Kayden is getting even more friendlier than past.. When we're shopping, just happened that there're people saying byebye (strangers), he will wave his hand saying byebye too.. & He's happily walking with Kieron holding his hand, and me on his other side, 3 of us WALKING together. hehe.. & you can see people coming to us, asking how old is Kayden, why is he so smart.. They never know how demanding and cheeky he can be. He can now even climb up the musical table and sitting on it, kicking his legs.. Funny but naughty.

Year 2008 is coming to an end

Fast enough, just 3 more weeks, it will be year 2009. A brand new year...

What will happen? Surprises? Happiness? Sadness? I will never know till the day comes..

However, I know for sure, my boys be happy, healthy and smart.. Obedient? Hmmz.. I dare not say too much of it. haha.. The kids nowadays are way toooo special. Whatever they do are really unexpected. So I only can do as much as I can, putting in my best effort in bringing them up.

Aren't they cute..? hehe.. Friends from UK and Sri Lanka wanted to have them. haha..


Hubby wanted us to take a photo with his pet. (I do felt weird..Don't know y? He refused to tel me, haha)

My daring mother.. Really! So great!!!

My parents just went on a trip to Penang.. Their 2nd time there. But this time without us around (noisy bunch of kids). hehe.. Just with my dad's frens,my uncle and some other aunties uncles, organised by RC member..

They had a happy time there.. & mummy did something out of our expectation.. Something that none of us has the chance and guts to try out.. (My mother is on the front seat)


Mummy said it's really enjoying and exciting up high in the air, with the sea "under" her feets. hehe.. While she's having fun, my dad was worrying and taking photos of my daring mother. haha..

They are starting to enjoy life now, they will take out some of their free times to go on short trips together. Away from home, away from stress, away from us. hehe.. So envious of them.. I wonder will I get such a chance when I'm old.. hehe...

Kayden IS WALKING - BY himself!!

Oh yes!! Kayden started walking without assistance Just 10MINUTES ago.. He walked about 6 steps before dropping ontn the ground. hehe.. What made him do that?? hehe..

He was trying to get me carry him. But i refused as he's throwing little kiddy temper again. & not expecting that, he stood up and walked over to me with no support. I was thrilled!! haha..

Hubby who was sitting on the armchair was shocked and happy to see that too.. hehe... We let him to try walking on his own the second time. I let him get hold of the bike. When I said byebye, he let go of the bike handle and moved towards me again. With NO SUPPORT!! hahaha..

He started walking earlier than Kieron. Kieron officially walked without assistance at the age of 11th mths. But Kayden is onli 10.5mths (9.5mths biologically).

A pity that the camera is with my parents, or I have taken down. hahaha.. "Kayden's first step". He himself is happy to walk towards me without anyone holding to him too. haha..

By 2009's CNY, he be walking around even steadily... hehe..

T*W*E*N*T*Y S*I*X

I forgot about my own birthday.. & was still happily searching for Xmas song for my blog backgrd, whole mind is about the oncoming Xmas party at my house with my ex colleagues. hehe..

Till someone asked me how old am I. Then "Oh! I'm turning 26years old in less than a month time!!" hehehe.. Excited cos a year is coming to an end, and I have 2 lovely boys sent from God to bring me joy and laughters (some anger too). Down spirited cos I didn't know how my birthday is gonna be for this year.. Lonely? Quiet? With Fun?

Don't know if anyone remember? Let's leave it as a mystery...

Kayden snatching Kieron's mini computer

See how naughty Kayden can be when he WANTS something badly.. he's not crying but yelling..

Cutey videos

Kayden babbling with me

Kayden on bikes

Its 9am early in the morning.. 2nd morning at my own house after a long break. Kayden is adaptive this time, this little fellow is back to his own self fast, he goes around the house opening drawers, snatching like a pirate/robber...

Yesterday, he tried to follow us saying Byebye.. Great job that he did it nicely.. He can be really talkative if you play awhile with him. He's not afraid of strangers, will smile widely and show excitement upon see new faces, but somehow still abit reserved when comes to playing..

See how happy he is without Kieron fighting over the bikes with him. haha...

Thanks pals

Hi pals..

Thanks for all your calls, sms, emails after reading our story.. Thanks for your care, love and concern.. I didn't tell you what happened during that period of time, cos I don't wanna trouble anyone of you, making you worried.. hehe.. We are currently doing well.. Just that I'm still lack of sleep and getting thinner.. Kayden is getting naughtier, smarter (he can climb up the bed, open cupboards and say byebye now) and chubbier.. hehe...

Been addicted to online gaming. Will update more soon. I promise.. Soon.. hehe.. Promised with some funny and cute videos and photos..!!


By the way, my hp was spoilt (due to Kayden's corrosive saliva). So if you're looking for me, either call my OWN house or email/Msn me!

See ya soon!!

Motherhood

December issue of Motherhood is out in town!!

Kayden and my story is featured under "Real Life : The Miracle Baby"

Xmas is round the corner

Less than a month, it will be Christmas!! One of my fav day of the year. With food, joy, fun, laughters, gifts, parties and friends.

These were taken last week, using Shelyn's camera at Causeway point after our breakfast at Mcdonalds.

hehe... It's been years I last took a photo with Shelyn.. Missed those days we played and shared together..


Kayden was not very cooperative then, he's sleepy and been looking around. Like what Shelyn said, Everywhere but not the camera. haha..

Brother's new pet

My youngest brother and his campmates saved a cutey little whitey kittens from the hands the cat catcher.

The kitty is really cute! He's about the size of an adult hand, white body,black tail and blue eyes. His dad is a Persian and mum a stray. He's very active, and very smart. He's able to toilet peein and paper shitting after seeing how my dogs do it. But, he's always hungry. He will want to eat cat food every hour. hehe..

Havent get to name him. Kayden loves him so much, always chasing him in his walker. haha..

Wanna guess what animals can be found in my mum's house? hehe..

I'm Free~~!! Time for game and blog

I'm starting to have better sleep. hehe.. Able to sleep through the nights (breastfeeding in middle of nights while lying down - relaxing).

Kieron been sticking with my brother lately. Both having school holidays, always into PSP games, wrestling, shopping and swimming together. While they're having fun, Kayden been very sticky to me. He cries easily whenever he sees me out of his sight.He's able to stand without assistance ad drinking water at the same time. hehe.. Will take a photo if I'm fast enough. haha..

These were taken few days back.. I will upload one video on Kayden babbling and talking to me when I have the time. hehe.. Taken this morning..
Kieron having water fight with my youngest brother.

Kayden trying to "blow a trumpet".

As for me, I'm somehow addicted to an online gaming session intro by my bro. Both of us are really into it.. It's named Perfect World, completing quests, killing monsters and manufacturing items.. Fun!! Able to know many people around the world, Australian, Americans, Sri Lankans, Europeans. alot..
I know, it's rather strange to see a girl into manly games. hehe..

Days, Years, Weeks, Hours, Minutes, Seconds

Being abit bored.. hehe..

Ever since I was borned..
It is 9459 days.
Or 25 years, 10 months, 23 days

9459 days can be converted to one of these units:
817,257,600 seconds
13,620,960 minutes
227,016 hours
1351 weeks
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From the first day I knew Jason, my hubby.
It is 3675 days.
Or 10 years, 22 days

3675 days can be converted to one of these units:
317,520,000 seconds
5,292,000 minutes
88,200 hours
525 weeks
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Kieron has been bringing fun, anger, laughters and tears to me for...
It is 1638 days
Or 4 years, 5 months, 24 days

1638 days can be converted to one of these units:
141,523,200 seconds
2,358,720 minutes
39,312 hours
234 weeks
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Kayden has been bringing new challenges into my life for...
It is 304 days
Or 9 months, 30 days

304 days can be converted to one of these units:
26,265,600 seconds
437,760 minutes
7296 hours
43 weeks

Photos taken

New aged FBI, Kieron Kok

At the library, Kayden will want to follow Kieron around, digging the cupboards for books, walking round and round the table till he got tired and started crawling. hehe..

Mcdonald's lunch with hubby and sons.. Kayden likes to sit on his own whenever we had meals outside.

This is a newly temp setup barrier for Kayden when I'm at work. hehe.. He's only allowed to play in the room.
"Crawling, struggling,yelling"
Kayden turned grouchy when he failed to climb onto the luggage.

Dad's 57th Birthday. hehe.. Had 2 yummy chocolate cakes in a week time.
Kayden got angry when he's not allowed to touch the cake. haha..