Monday, July 14, 2008

Mischievious Kieron

Kieron been cheeky recently.. Don't know is it I stressed him too much on his discipline lately.. His teacher asked me last week if I'm a strict mother at home, cos he's seemed very "scared" or can say extra well mannered after June holiday. He would finish his work nicely and slowly, and showed his teacher personally and said that "I'm finished", and when teacher teased him if he don't do his work nicely, she will inform me, and he will shake his head profusely.

& whenever we're outside with people we're very close, he tends to be let out of the cage. He will want to play and get attention as much as he could. He can be a total different character from at home and outside. He will try to be cheeky but luckily not too monkey. Though he did things wrong outside, I will still remind him, but not scold him or beat him in front of the others. The children nowadays have their own mindset and strong dignity. They tend to get sensitive easily, I will refrain from making him embarassed badly. The kids now are so fragile in their "heart issue", they can be seen as naughty kids at this moment, but they can be a reserved and isolated child at next moment. Like what my brother had said, violence, shouting may not be the way in teaching kid now. For me, I will give reminders and warnings. If he still persist, then comes the punishment. & the most useful punishment for now is total silence, when I ignored him or pretended not to see and hear him, he will get panic and realised he's really in wrong, and I'm really too angry to talk. Then he will calm down and repent and rethink.

Challenging days... Challenging moments...


Today's lunch at McD with my youngest brother.


While waiting for my dad to come and send us home. Cheeky Kieron making funny faces


Kieron trying to act steady, actually he tried to make funny faces again, but I said "It's ugly, I don't like it" then he showed me this face. hehe.. handsome ya..

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